Why Does My Kid Hate Me?

Grabbing your phone in the middle of the night and googling “Why does my kid hate me?” is an experience that I think all parents of sensitive kids and teens have.

You knew that you would sign up for sleepless nights when your kid was an infant.

But now, you lie awake and ponder questions you never prepared for.

Why does my kid hate me?

Why does my kid hide things from me?

How do I get my kid to tell me what’s wrong?

And the worst part about googling these questions is that you never find answers.

The internet, which can tell you almost anything, cannot tell you about your kid.

You know your kid.

So why can’t you figure out the answer to this one?

There are plenty of reasons why, but to give you the jist:

You’re hurt. 

Your feelings are hurt because you are a human, not just a parent.

And you are having trouble sorting through your own feelings to see what is really going on here.

That doesn’t make you a selfish person, or a bad parent.

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What to do when our kid gets kicked out of school?

 

It’s one of the top nightmares that a parent can experience.

Your kid gets kicked out of school. 

Now what?

Or maybe you’re just on edge 24/7, waiting for the day it happens.

Regardless of where you are, I don’t need to remind you that this is no way to live.

When you are in full on worry mode, you simply can’t be your best self.

Walking on eggshells around this problem doesn’t fix it either.

So let’s rewind. 

If your child struggles with the daily or weekly meltdowns,

This can manifest in many different ways.

Sometimes, meltdowns can move from tears to anger between blinks.

Your kid could go from screaming to hitting and kicking a matter for seconds.

And you usually don’t even know where this aggression is coming from.

If this is happening at school, it’s even scarier to manage.

It usually involves multiple school officials,

Time outs, getting your red card pulled, getting sent to the principal's office,

All things that feel...

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Hygiene Hysteria: How to Get Your HSC to Brush Their Teeth Without A Fight

A question you never thought you’d ask other parents when you decided to become a parent:

How long does it take your kid to brush their teeth?

Because you know that even though it’s an annoying and daily chore,

We all need to do it. 

For at least two minutes, if we are following health guidelines.

So why does it take your kid 15, 30, or even longer to get through a two minute daily activity?

You’ve probably asked yourself that before. 

And if you’ve asked other parents, they probably had a mouthful of information to share.

“I’ve just given up on brushing her teeth in the morning. We just do it at night.”

“This one toothbrush my son uses lights up and plays a song! It helps.”

“Just tell your kid their teeth will rot and fall out of their head. Fear works, mama!”

Some of these tactics may have worked for you temporarily,

But you know the problem is not just brushing their teeth.

Because this started when your...

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How Should You Expect Your HSC to Handle Uncomfortable Situations?

Uncategorized Mar 30, 2022
 

There are challenges you don’t expect when you enter parenthood.

We all assume that our natural instincts will take over and show us what to do…

And any additional research we do is a bonus.

Wouldn’t it be amazing if that’s how it really worked out?

Whether parental instincts are real is not a scientific debate I am here to discuss.

What I do want to talk about today is discomfort.

We all experience it on varying levels.

If your Highly Sensitive child is stuck in the meltdown cycle,

They’ve been experiencing discomfort BIG TIME.

But one thing that other parents don’t own up to:

What do you do when we are trying to coach our kids through uncomfortable situations… and we are ALSO uncomfortable?

If you ask other parents what to do here, you worry about their harsh attack:

“Why are YOU uncomfortable?! YOU’RE THE PARENT!!”

“Take responsibility!”

“YOU are supposed to be the one GUIDING them!!”

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Why Does Your HSC HATE the Surprise Gift You Got Them?

 

What’s worse: surprising your kid with a gift that they hate, but they pretend to love?

Or surprising them with a gift you know they LOVE, but suddenly, they hate it?

Let me tell you a story. Our family recently adopted a puppy.

My kid loves animals and we knew that she wanted a puppy.

We knew there would be hyperactivity, lots of licking, jumping around, chewing on stuff, etc.

So when we brought it home,

I started thinking about how HSCs who are stuck in the meltdown cycle might react to this much sensory overload.

Would fear overshadowed excitement?

Suck up the joy completely before anyone knew what happened?

If your child is missing the skills to regulate their emotions and you are walking on eggshells around their explosions,

The meltdowns would take the lead here. 

So, what do you do if your HSC can’t handle surprises?

Tune in to find out.

https://www.megghanthompsoncoaching.com/

 

For Highly Sensitive Teens:

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Strong Willed and Disrespect: When to Draw the Line

 

When you’re the parent of a Highly Sensitive child, 

It’s hard to know where to draw the line on some things:

Is your kid disrespectful? 

Or does their attitude come from their “strong willed” personality?

I can actually solve this one for you, very quickly.

Your HSC doesn’t have a respect problem.

And now that we’ve established that, 

Why is your HSC so headstrong? And how do you manage it?

First off, accepting that your kid is “strong-willed” or “spirited” doesn’t solve anything.

One author’s book with bullet points on how to manage your kid’s stubbornness doesn’t address the root of this problem,

Which, if left unaddressed, can lead to chronic suicidal or self-harmful behavior. 

The root of this problem is grown from the meltdown cycle.

Not from the desire to be difficult. 

So, what is the solution here? Tune in to find out.

https://www.megghanthompsoncoaching.com/talk

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Rewriting Our Family’s Story: Savannah & Alan

 

If it feels like your HSC is down in the dumps more than the average kid,

You’ll want to hear this.

You are not alone.

Our client Savannah knows exactly how that feels, and that feeling was HARD to work through.

Savannah’s story is common for parents who are stuck in the meltdown cycle.

She wanted to be a mom for such a long time,

And the fact that her child seemed melancholy SO often was disheartening.

She describes her HSC as feeling upset and on edge constantly,

Crying often,

And even stated that there was a lack of connection.

She felt like no matter how much her and Alan tried, 

They could not meet their HSC’s needs.

She also felt like she could not help her child in the midst of a meltdown.

And that was really discouraging.

In Savannah’s words, “I felt helpless. I was failing myself and my daughter.”

So how did this family break out of the meltdown cycle with MTC’s help?

Tune in to hear Savannah’s story.

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Do You Ever Feel Like Having A Child Ruined Your Life?

 

Have you ever felt like having a kid ruined your life?

I KNOW this statement is incredibly controversial…

However, when you work with parents whose children are suffering so badly with daily meltdowns like I do, 

It’s a statement that we hear frequently.

A statement that, of course, is the most shameful thing a parent can admit to.

Because anyone with a pulse and a drop of empathy knows that even having that thought for a fleeting moment ONCE must affect your relationship with your kid… 

And their relationship with themselves.

And since we only work with awesome parents, who always have awesome kids, 

Admitting something like this is not only gut-wrenching.

It can be paralyzing.

But don’t fret just yet. We have the answers you need. Tune in to hear more.

https://www.megghanthompsoncoaching.com/talk

 

For Highly Sensitive Teens:

https://www.megghanthompsoncoaching.com/teentalk  

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Eating Habits: My Sensitive Kid Keeps Under/Over Eating

 

As a parent, you wear a million hats, but there’s really only one that is essential.

Keep your kid healthy - in a literal sense.

Feed them.

Today I’m going to talk about how your child’s eating habits play a role in the meltdown cycle if your child is also suffering from daily meltdowns. 

First, some housekeeping. 

I’m not a dietician. 

I have no formal educational background in nutrition.

I don’t claim to know what the best thing to feed your child is, 

And I also am not qualified to give you information on what to feed them,

or how to help them with measuring their food intake. 

(This is why we have an OT parent consultant on our team.)

What I am qualified to teach you is how eating habits can play a role in the meltdown cycle. 

Want to know how? Tune in to find out.

https://www.megghanthompsoncoaching.com/talk

 

For Highly Sensitive Teens:

https://www.megghanthompsoncoaching.com/teentalk  

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My Kid Was Fine Last Year… Why is EVERYTHING Stressing Them Out Now?

 

You always think you’ve finally figured out what triggers a meltdown…

Until the sun rises again and a new issue comes with it.

It’s hard being a parent, we know this.

But it can almost feel like your kid is just being dramatic,

Or doing this on purpose to get attention. 

If these are thoughts YOU’VE had, you’re not alone.

And you’re not a bad parent either.

As an expert on the Highly Sensitive trait, I can tell you straight up that your kid is NOT doing this on purpose.

Children cannot manipulate their parents.

They don’t have the internal hardwiring in their brains to do so.

So, why does your kid HATE places and events they used to love?

Why do they throw a fit now or totally refuse, when they used to go willingly?

Watch this video to find out.

https://www.megghanthompsoncoaching.com/talk 

 

For Highly Sensitive Teens:

https://www.megghanthompsoncoaching.com/teentalk 

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