You’ve talked to your sensitive kid or teen about why it’s important to bathe and you still have a stinky kid. What gives?
Your instinct as a parent is to tell your child WHY their body needs to stay clean.
You've read advice like:
“Explain the consequences of not bathing!“
“Just tell them to suck it up!”
Here’s the thing. It’s never logic that holds your kid back from taking action.
Because you’re not addressing the actual problem...
Watch the video to learn how to help your child get past their hygiene meltdown, and click the link to book a call with my team to end the meltdown cycle for good.
https://www.megghanthompsoncoaching.com/talk
Parents of sensitive teens:
When your child freezes, freaks out or stalls when their routine or expectations aren’t met, it can go from 0-100 quickly.
Contrary to what you might believe, teaching your child to handle these surprising situations IN THE MOMENT perpetuates the problem.
Believe it or not, it’s not an effective strategy (for longterm change).
Tune in to learn how to break the cycle of your child’s intense reactions to change (using proven, research-backed methods)...
And to learn how your well-intentioned coping skills you're trying to teach your kid...are actually setting him up for more emotional struggle.
Book your call with our team if you’re tired of tip-toeing around your child or teen and want to build resilience for your sensitive child without making them ‘suck it up’ or coaching them to breathe into a paper bag for every little thing.
Parents of children:
megghanthompsoncoaching.com/
Parents of teens:
Contrary to what you may think...
Your HSC's sleep issues are NOT just about vitamins, screens or diet.
As much as you try to limit screen time, sugar or food dyes...many of you are also hesitant to use a pill to support your child in falling asleep.
At any age, parents need to be aware of their sensitive child or teen’s emotional problems that may be the root of their sleep issues.
Altering diet, adding vitamins/medications and other ‘quick fix’ approaches are really just masking deeper causes...that require long term commitments.
Look, I get it, I avoid certain foods too.
Sunshine is good for the body, to process proper hormones to support sleep onset. That’s just it, however: ‘support.’
Because when you avoid helping your child learn how to process anxiety-provoking topics like the school day, friendships, and family relationships...
Then all the ‘tricks’ in the world aren’t going to help your sensitive kid settle...
A typical pattern we hear from parents working to help their child end the meltdown cycle is to focus on their child’s coping skills.
When you’re in the middle of surviving this cycle you can get stuck in throwing things at the wall to see what sticks…
…So, here’s what the cycle looks like: your child has a meltdown.
You try to help them through it.
While they’re melting down, you’re teaching them to use a skill, and they refuse to use it in the moment…
So, you try to talk about it later…
…and when the next meltdown comes, your child refuses again, and you do it all over again… and again… and again… for all eternity…
…it seriously feels like it will be, because when you feel this reactive, it’s jarring to think about how your child would ever stop their meltdown behavior.
When your child isn’t consistent with their coping skills it’s quite frustrating to...
I’m going to speak to you as a wife for a second… My husband has NO parenting expertise.
I have had to overcome several myths to get us on the same page, the very same ones I helped my clients through early on in my career, before I just simply made a decision to not buy into the story from one parent that the other wasn’t committed.
Once I made that decision, I stopped hearing from parents that one was less committed than the other.
Once I had a kid, however, I had to remember these decisions and apply them to my husband. Because, as you know, professional and personal lives are different.
So, I did the work.
When you’re dealing with ending the daily meltdown cycle, it’s important to BELIEVE with every fiber of your being that your spouse wants to live a different life than what you’re living right now.
It’s your turn:
#1
MYTH:: Your partner is certain their way “works”.
FACT: Your partner knows...
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