When you have a highly sensitive child, it can feel like you're constantly putting out fires.
The daily meltdowns, the refusal to get dressed for school, the extreme reactions to seemingly small things...
It's exhausting. And often, in the chaos, it's easy to overlook one surprising trigger - visual clutter.
You see, for sensitive children, excess visual stimuli can feel as overwhelming as a room full of people shouting.
Their brains process information deeply, noticing every detail in the environment.
So while a pile of unsorted mail on the kitchen counter may barely register for you, for your sensitive child, it can be a loud, constant distraction that frays their nerves.
This doesn't mean you need to become a die-hard minimalist overnight.
But it does mean that reducing visual clutter is one small change that can make a big impact in lowering your child's stress levels.
Watch this week’s podcast to learn more about what to do about it.
Here are a few simple ways to get...
I want to share a powerful story about one of our clients, a mom of two boys one of which was struggling with 2-3 meltdowns per day.
She confided in us that she had been suffering in silence for months, too embarrassed to reach out for help because the meltdowns only happened at home.
She thought since her kids held it together in public, it meant they were doing better than if they melted down in front of others.
But here's the truth: Meltdowns are meltdowns, regardless of where they happen. And parental isolation due to shame is a hidden symptom of the meltdown cycle.
In her case, there were carpool arguments clouding friendships that she chalked up to her boys just needing better social skills… not realizing the two issues were connected.
But once she stopped walking on eggshells and started requiring her children to manage their emotions with the tools we taught her, everything changed.
He went from multiple meltdowns per day to...
Are you unknowingly making THIS critical mistake in your parenting that could be destroying your marriage?
Many well-meaning parents who practice attachment-focused parenting fall into the trap of coddling their sensitive child.
They save their child from ever experiencing negative emotions.
They always put their child's needs above their own and their spouse's.
They avoid setting any limits, for fear of upsetting their sensitive child.
The result? A co-dependent relationship forms between parent and child...
And the marriage starts to crumble under the strain.
If you're noticing more tension and less connection in your marriage since becoming parents to a sensitive child...
This could be the root cause that no one is talking about.
I know you love your child deeply and want to raise them with a secure attachment.
But it doesn't have to come at the cost of your marriage or your own emotional well-being.
...
Quick question– why are you ignoring your own exhaustion as a parent, treating it like a neglected toothache?
What does this have to do with teaching your child to take responsibility for their actions?
Let's be real - if your sensitive child is having daily meltdowns, it's a glaring sign they haven't yet developed a resourceful identity.
Resourcefulness is non-negotiable for your child's lifelong success and happiness. It's the key to resilience.
If your child can't creatively solve problems or stay present when upset, they're stuck in the meltdown cycle.
And that cycle won't end on its own.
When they refuse options and meltdown instead of problem-solving, they're telling you they need help rewiring their brain for resilience.
That's exactly what we do in our latest parent training.
We'll show you exactly what’s getting in the way when you try to help your child:
This training is not just...
As a parent of a highly sensitive child, you know the daily struggle of trying to get your kiddo to open up about their big feelings without triggering a meltdown.
It's easy to fall into the trap of thinking:
"My child just won't talk to ME about their emotions. They must need a professional to teach them how to self-regulate."
I get it. When your attempts at emotional coaching lead to more shut down than breakthrough, it's tempting to outsource the job to a therapist.
But here's the truth: YOU are the exact right person to guide your child to emotional mastery. And trying to delegate that role can actually backfire.
Here's why:
Emotional intelligence is caught, not taught.
Your child learns to manage feelings by watching how YOU do it. A therapist can't model this 24/7.
Attunement is the key to emotional safety.
No one knows your child's unique triggers and sensitivities like you do. That attunement is essential for true emotional growth.
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If the thought of sending your highly sensitive child (HSC) back to school fills you with equal parts hope and dread, you're not alone.
You want this to be the year they finally thrive - academically, socially, and emotionally.
But past experience has taught you that even with the best intentions, school can be a minefield of meltdowns for your HSC.
Maybe you're haunted by memories of:
Introducing our "Success in School for Highly Sensitive Children" training - your roadmap to a calm, confident back-to-school...
Watch this week's live where we re-introduce who MTC is and learn about our vision and mission.
Link here.
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