I want to share a powerful story about one of our clients, a mom of two boys one of which was struggling with 2-3 meltdowns per day.

She confided in us that she had been suffering in silence for months, too embarrassed to reach out for help because the meltdowns only happened at home.

She thought since her kids held it together in public, it meant they were doing better than if they melted down in front of others.

But here's the truth: Meltdowns are meltdowns, regardless of where they happen. And parental isolation due to shame is a hidden symptom of the meltdown cycle.

In her case, there were carpool arguments clouding friendships that she chalked up to her boys just needing better social skills… not realizing the two issues were connected.

But once she stopped walking on eggshells and started requiring her children to manage their emotions with the tools we taught her, everything changed.

He went from multiple meltdowns per day to...

Are you unknowingly making THIS critical mistake in your parenting that could be destroying your marriage?

Many well-meaning parents who practice attachment-focused parenting fall into the trap of coddling their sensitive child.

They save their child from ever experiencing negative emotions.

They always put their child's needs above their own and their spouse's.

They avoid setting any limits, for fear of upsetting their sensitive child.

The result? A co-dependent relationship forms between parent and child...

And the marriage starts to crumble under the strain.

If you're noticing more tension and less connection in your marriage since becoming parents to a sensitive child...

This could be the root cause that no one is talking about.

I know you love your child deeply and want to raise them with a secure attachment.

But it doesn't have to come at the cost of your marriage or your own emotional well-being.

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As a parent of a sensitive child, you know the heartache of watching them meltdown over seemingly small bits of constructive feedback.

It's painful to see your kid react so strongly, and not know how to help them calmly receive guidance to grow.

Here's what most parenting experts won't tell you:

Your own ability to take feedback is directly tied to your sensitive child's ability to do the same.

Let me explain.

When you receive constructive feedback yourself, what's your own internal self-talk?

Do you default to "Suck it up, this is no big deal" or "See? You really do just suck at this"?

If so, you're accidentally invalidating the very real emotional pain that comes with personal growth - for both you and your child.

You see, sensitive children are deeply attuned to their parents' every micro-expression and unstated belief.

So when you can't compassionately accept your own growth feedback, they subconsciously learn that...

A little tooth sensitivity is easy to brush off. "It's not a big deal," you think.

But beneath the surface, decay is silently eating away at the root.

By the time you're wincing in pain with every bite, that little cavity is now a big, expensive root canal.

Can you imagine parenting like that? Of course you would never neglect your kid’s tooth pain.

Quick question– why are you ignoring your own exhaustion as a parent, treating it like a neglected toothache?

What does this have to do with teaching your child to take responsibility for their actions?

Your sensitive child's daily meltdowns are just like emotional cavities, eroding their resilience at the root.

Fill them now before you're facing an emotional extraction that didn't have to happen.

Here are 3 crucial shifts to help your child take responsibility and end the meltdown cycle for good:

Emphasize their genuine problem-solving abilities.

Sensitive kids are incredibly...

Let's be real - if your sensitive child is having daily meltdowns, it's a glaring sign they haven't yet developed a resourceful identity.

Resourcefulness is non-negotiable for your child's lifelong success and happiness. It's the key to resilience.

If your child can't creatively solve problems or stay present when upset, they're stuck in the meltdown cycle. 

And that cycle won't end on its own.

When they refuse options and meltdown instead of problem-solving, they're telling you they need help rewiring their brain for resilience.

That's exactly what we do in our latest parent training.

We'll show you exactly what’s getting in the way when you try to help your child:

• Stay present and process big feelings without outbursts 
• Creatively solve problems instead of melting down
• Feel truly heard and understood by you
• Open up without fear or shame
• Strengthen their resourceful identity for life

This training is not just...

As a parent of a highly sensitive child, you know the daily struggle of trying to get your kiddo to open up about their big feelings without triggering a meltdown.

It's easy to fall into the trap of thinking:

"My child just won't talk to ME about their emotions. They must need a professional to teach them how to self-regulate."

I get it. When your attempts at emotional coaching lead to more shut down than breakthrough, it's tempting to outsource the job to a therapist.

But here's the truth: YOU are the exact right person to guide your child to emotional mastery. And trying to delegate that role can actually backfire.

Here's why:

• Emotional intelligence is caught, not taught.

• Your child learns to manage feelings by watching how YOU do it. A therapist can't model this 24/7.

• Attunement is the key to emotional safety.

• No one knows your child's unique triggers and sensitivities like you do. That attunement is essential for true emotional growth.

• ...

If the thought of sending your highly sensitive child (HSC) back to school fills you with equal parts hope and dread, you're not alone.

You want this to be the year they finally thrive - academically, socially, and emotionally. 

But past experience has taught you that even with the best intentions, school can be a minefield of meltdowns for your HSC.

Maybe you're haunted by memories of:

• Daily calls from the teacher about behavior issues
• Homework battles that left everyone in tears
• Watching your bright child struggle to keep up or make friends
• Feeling unheard or dismissed when you tried to advocate for accommodations
• Worrying that another year of stress would crush your child's love of learning
• Here's the good news: it IS possible to set your HSC up for genuine success this school year - by taking action NOW.

Introducing our "Success in School for Highly Sensitive Children" training - your roadmap to a calm, confident back-to-school...

Watch this week's live where we re-introduce who MTC is and learn about our vision and mission.

Link here.

When your highly sensitive child (HSC) struggles with transitions, it can feel like you're stuck in an endless loop of negotiations, meltdowns, and frustration.

I know you love your child deeply, but the daily battles over getting out the door, starting homework, or going to bed are sucking the joy out of parenting.

Here's what you need to know: your child isn't giving you a hard time, they're having a hard time. And they need you to be their emotional anchor through the turbulent waters of change.

As a parent of an HSC, your job isn't to simply make your child "obey" or comply with transitions on your timeline.

Your role is to create an environment that honors their unique sensitivities and equips them with the tools to navigate change in a way that feels safe and manageable to their nervous system.

This means parenting from a place of:

Connection, not control: Building trust and emotional safety so your child feels seen and supported...

As a parent of a highly sensitive child (HSC), you know how overwhelming and intense their meltdowns can be. Not only for you, but for their siblings too.

It's a common struggle I hear from parents in your shoes:

You're trying to console your HSC and help them through the meltdown, but their siblings keep intervening - either trying to "fix it", giving in to demands, or getting upset themselves.

You want to remove your HSC to a calmer environment, but worry about leaving the other kids alone or making your sensitive child feel isolated and ashamed.

You attempt to set boundaries with the siblings, but in the heat of the moment it's hard to be firm and consistent.

You love all your children and want to be fair, but your HSC's big reactions take up so much bandwidth, the other kids' needs often get backseat.

Here's the truth - trying to juggle everyone's feelings and reactions in the midst of a meltdown is an impossible task. It's not your...